If you haven't heard the song "I would die for that" by Kellie Coffey, you need to listen to it.
Here's a link to it on youtube: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JqfGqOx2iDQ
For anyone struggling with IF or just having trouble trying to conceive (3TC), this song will really hit home.
I played it for Tim in the car on Friday while we were driving to get dinner. He reached down to hold my hand and I lost it. I've never wanted something so much and I just can't accept the fact that no matter how hard we try, it may not happen for us.